Contemplation — What’s the Difference?

Contemplation — What’s the Difference?

Contemplation — What’s the Difference? 1080 1080 SVDP USA

Speaking about the home visit in 1834, Blessed Frédéric said that it “is one of the best rendered charities and one that produces the best results, above all, in these times when help is generally dispensed with such culpable indifference...” [Unpubished] It’s useful to recall that the home visit was not the first or the only form of assistance to the poor in Frédéric’s time, just as it is not the only form of assistance in our own time.

Take a number. Have a seat. Fill out this form. Let’s see if you qualify. I’ll ask the committee for approval. These impersonal words and actions accompany so much of the material assistance available to our neighbors in need from various agencies they approach, hat in hand, sometimes taking time off work that they can hardly afford to take.

St. Vincent once mused that “there is great charity, but it is badly organized.” [VHJ 26.1] In our day, this observation seems at times to have been turned on its head, as the poor are drowned in “organization” when seeking whatever assistance may be available. As John Boyle O’Reilly so memorably put it in his 1886 poem, In Bohemia: The organized charity, scrimped and iced, In the name of a cautious, statistical Christ.

Under the guise of being politically correct or ideologically fashionable,” Pope Francis says, “we look at those who suffer without touching them.” [FT, 76] Material assistance doled out impersonally, or indifferently as Frédéric put it, is like exercise on a treadmill. Your body may be served, but you will not have gotten anywhere.

The Home Visit brings with it the understanding of a friend, the welcoming smile, and “to the bread that nourishes, it adds the visit that consoles.” [O’Meara, 229] Far from “culpable indifference,” we “must never take the attitude of merely getting the task done.” [SWLM, 773] Instead, as our Rule demands of us, we give generously of our time, our talents, our possessions and ourselves. [Rule, Part I, 2.5.1]

We’re not called only to write checks. We’re called to love our neighbor. That’s the difference.


Are my Home Visits more like an interviews, or conversations?

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  • our conference has resumed home visits since before covid ended. we were meeting neighbors in parks and fast food restaurants. In person visits make much difference.

  • I am so glad to hear that someone else is seeing the same problem of more organization and less charity. I have personally seeing this happen in our community and have been appalled. the people of the community have less communication with the community services because they have no one to talk to after calling, and after leaving the message not receiving a return call or message. several times I have been asked from individuals in the community that needed assistance and gave them the resources but without any results. I would appreciate speaking to someone in your organization after being a Catholic myself for over 72 years. please call 530-844-4040.

  • Marykathryn Stenzel March 13, 2023 at 4:53 pm

    Tim, Your Contemplation is timely for my Distriict and I will personally share it this is Conference Vincentians.
    REceiving in this format is easier to share. Contined blessing during Lent.

  • When you are distributing food to those who come asking for it, you can take one of two attitudes:….

    1 – “Catch and punish” Examine the candidates for their worthiness according to your every rule.

    2 – “Compassionate Common Sense” and if the situation is undecided, then Compassion must always prevail.

    You will sleep well with attitude #2.

    • Timothy P Williams March 14, 2023 at 2:30 pm

      As the manual reminds us (p. 23) “Conference members should never adopt the attitude that the money is theirs, or that the recipients have to prove that they deserve it.”

  • Beverline Smith-Lawson March 13, 2023 at 7:10 pm

    Do I need to take a class in order to do Home visit?

    • Timothy P Williams March 14, 2023 at 2:29 pm

      Hi Beverline,

      In addition to the Ozanam Orientation, your local Council may offer Home Visit Workshops, but your primary home visit training takes place in your Conference!

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