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A Place for Her at SVdP: Sister Kieran Kneaves

A Place for Her at SVdP: Sister Kieran Kneaves 1367 2048 SVDP USA

Deepening the Society’s Spiritual Foundation as First Woman To Serve As National Formation Director

Through prayer, formation, and leadership, women have helped ensure that the Society of St. Vincent de Paul’s work remains rooted in its deepest mission: seeing Christ in those who are poor and vulnerable. One woman who has helped strengthen that spiritual foundation across the United States is Sister Kieran Kneaves.

Sr. Kieran became SVdP’s first National Formation Director in 2002. A member of the Daughters of Charity, a religious community of women founded by St. Vincent de Paul and St. Louise de Marillac, she has always been dedicated to helping members of the Society determine their spiritual “why” behind their service.

Strengthening Formation

When Sr. Kieran was invited to serve as the Society’s first National Formation Director, she stepped into a role at a pivotal moment. At the time, the Society’s National President, Gene Smith, asked in a letter to all Conferences, ‘What do we need to renew ourselves?’

“The number one statement that came back was ‘Spirituality,’” she said. “We need to know our roots.”

Sr. Kieran instantly acted. She brought decades of experience as a Daughter of Charity and educator to her role and focused on helping Vincentians better understand the spirit that already animated their service. Drawing on the Vincentian tradition, she developed study guides, formation materials, and national programs that helped bring greater clarity and consistency to formation across the country.

“I did a lot of publications, workshops, retreats … just educating the Society,” she said. “They had the spirit in their heart and their soul. I just gave them words to talk about it.”

Connecting Service and Spirituality

For Sr. Kieran, formation was never about creating something new – it was about helping Vincentians recognize what was already present in their work.

“I had to learn the Society’s whole culture and respect that culture in order to teach what I knew about the heritage and spirituality of St. Vincent himself.”

That mutual exchange – learning and teaching – became central to her approach.

She worked closely with leaders like Sheila Gilbert, SVdP’s first woman National President, who helped guide and support formation efforts during those early years.

“Sheila was wonderful to work with because she was so creative,” Sr. Kieran said. “She would give me ideas and then let me do them.”

A Lasting Impact

Sr. Kieran also witnessed firsthand the evolving role of women within SVdP, particularly the gradual shift toward leadership.

“There were a lot of women at the conference level. But not in leadership … it was all men when I first got there.”

Over time, that began to change. She pointed to leaders like Gilbert as pivotal in that shift, noting that her election marked “a turning point” for SVdP.

Today, formation remains a cornerstone of the SVdP’s work, shaped in part by the foundation Sr. Kieran helped build. Looking ahead, she sees the continued collaboration between men and women as essential to SVdP’s future.

“The greatest need is to really work together in mutuality and respect,” she said. “The gifts of men and women working together … that’s powerful.”

3-26-2026 A Letter from Our Servant Leaders

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I Will Trust in You

Hello!

Where is “the journey (together) in holiness” [Rule 2.2] leading you? As Vincentians, we are called to holiness through “promoting a life of prayer and reflection” and by “Meditating on their Vincentian experiences.” God has provided providential moments that I will share with you that have surely been planned as a way for me to journey together in holiness and lean into this call to welcome young members through friendship.

A Little Background of My Most Recent Journey

In January of 2025, I wondered what I was going to do with the thought of having extra time with Zoie heading to college soon and Cain, my younger son, a freshman in high school at the time. Of course, I would still have both of their events to attend and the ebb and flow of marriage, but I knew these moments would be times of change for all of us. In that, I had to learn to trust in God and open myself up more in this journey in holiness. And so, like God often does, He provides –March 2025 brought on another layer of Vincentian-ing far different than I could ever envision, thus, my answer to how to spend this “extra time.”

First off, Zoie knew more about the role than I did. She had won the Young Vincentian Excellence Award in 2024 and that is when both of us first learned about something in the Society called Youth, Young Adults and Emerging Leaders. If this is the space you find yourself in going “huh” or “what” to this terminology, then good news, I can help!

Anyway, the first week after being announced, I had many emails of people wanting to meet virtually to ask questions, inquire about upcoming events that the young members could present at, a sponsorship to prepare for, youth Conferences that wanted to begin, etc. Again, Zoie led the way in understanding many of these pieces. For example, she had prepped the slideshow for regional meetings in January 2025 but to now have the responsibility of presenting them, that was scary and an honor at the same time. Enter in doubt, what can we share that would benefit our fellow Vincentians? We just do what we do in serving the people in need. Is it unusual or special that we serve as a family in many aspects of the Society? Yes is the answer I quickly discovered.

Fast forward to four months in, three regional meeting presentations later, Zoie and I headed to Rome for the Third International Youth Meeting. It was a major risk since we would arrive home the day before she moved into college and her first year as a student athlete. After a sprint to the connecting flight home, we were on track to make it in time to leave bright and early that next morning to drop Zoie off. Enter in tears of sadness and tears of joy. Enter in trusting the Lord

And so, I ask you, with this idea of journeying together in holiness and trust in the Lord’s plan, How is welcoming new members going for you?

In this role, I get many questions about getting new members, particularly young. Young, to me, is not defined by an age, but a mindset. How you act and think may be influenced by your experiences but why is it summed up by age?

Here are a few examples of efforts with young members:

  1. A young member in his twenties willingly comes to a meeting. He needed service hours for one of his university classes and wanted to help people in Direct service, not in theory. Members reach out via text with additional information and other ways to connect and invite him back after the meeting. Still no return.
  2. The daughter of two Vincentians agrees to meet another Vincentian from the same Conference. The daughter is part of a young adult group at a local parish that does not have The Vincentian and her meet for coffee, discuss SVdP, and that is where it ends.
  3. There is a family who’s interested in A member offers all kinds of other options instead of SVdP to serve the community since “home visits” probably are not what they can do or would be interested in.
  4. A college intern willingly seeks out your local SVdP The intern seems qualified and a good fit. Out of fear and a plethora of other reasons you deny the young adult an opportunity to experience SVdP from the inside out since it “costs too much” and “interns should not be paid.”

We think, “How many times can we try to find more people and it does not work?” or “What’s missing in my approach?”

Friendship—is this the missing essential element in your Vincentian journey to holiness in the examples above?

We often apply our Vincentian Charism to people in need, but miss the mark with potential members and our fellow Vincentians. Ask yourself:

  • Are you inviting or content with your group of Vincentian friends?
  • Are you engaging or mostly talk-and-theory to potential members?
  • Are you welcoming or only looking for particular members to join your Conference?
  • Is your mindset Vincentian-like in your actions or theory?
  • Are you a Vincentian in friendship or only service?
  • Do you offer to help a fellow member with their spiritual journey or sideline your efforts as that would be too personal?

Meetings

Do you show up to meetings in friendship or with a “one-hour” or “business-like” mentality since “we all have so much to do” and need to be “respectful of everyone’s time?”

Think back to spending time with a genuine friend. Someone you want to be with. Someone you have chosen to label “friend.” Did you also keep it to one hour and follow all the same guidelines we sometimes put on our SVdP friends? More than likely, the answer is no. A few will say yes and that is a mindset choice.

Perhaps we need to rethink our meetings.  Is this where you are landing on your friendship temp – lukewarm?  If you do not want to invite potential members to meetings, ask for a change. Make the meetings welcoming, a sense of renewal, a place of genuine friendship, and see the difference, feel the change, see even see an increase in recruitment and membership.

So, how is friendship welcoming new members?

Make your welcoming efforts inviting. Have a meal, coffee, Boba, desserts, or whatever else you may like. Start with a story about a neighbor in need instead of the history of our Society, how to become a member, the

training you will need or all the other things that tend to feel like overload from the second we meet someone who is inquiring about the Society.

Most importantly, measure your success by the relationships you’re forming, falling back on the trust in God, the trust that the timing in His plan is for good. So, let’s get back to seeing our ministry as a way of friendship in addition to service and first and foremost – a journey together in holiness.

Tootles,

Linda Roghair

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

A Place for Her at SVdP: Irene Frechette

A Place for Her at SVdP: Irene Frechette 960 720 SVDP USA

Opening the Door to a Lifetime of Service

Women have always been part of the Society of St. Vincent de Paul’s mission – serving families experiencing homelessness and poverty, organizing charitable efforts, and supporting Vincentian works in countless ways. For many years, however, their contributions often took place quietly behind the scenes.

Irene Frechette, a Vincentian of more than 50 years and former National Vice President for the Northeast Region of SVdP, remembers exactly when that began to change. A moment in time was all it took for Frechette to pave the way for women to become official members of SVdP and eventually lead.

Knocking on the Door

Frechette first encountered SVdP in the early 1970s through her parish in Massachusetts. At the time, membership in the local conference – and nationally – was largely reserved for men.

“The priest would tap a man on the shoulder after Mass and invite him to join,” she recalled. “That’s how it worked back then.”

Her husband became a member. Meanwhile, Irene and other women supported the work from the sidelines – wrapping Christmas gifts, preparing food baskets, and helping however they could.

But they weren’t invited into the room where decisions were made. One night, she and a friend decided to change that.

After their husbands left for a meeting in the church rectory basement, the two women followed about 20 minutes later and knocked on the door.

“When they opened it, they said, ‘What are you doing here?’ And we said, ‘We’re your new members.’”

The men let them in, and the rest is history.

Growing Into Leadership

That small moment opened the door not only for Irene, but for other women who would follow.

“At first it was, ‘Oh, the girls are here – they can take the minutes,’” Frechette said. “Then it was, ‘They’re good with the finances.’ Little by little, we became part of it.”

Frechette didn’t just join – she stayed, and she led. Over the next five decades, she took on nearly every role within SVdP.

“I’ve probably held every local position there is to hold,” she said. “Secretary, treasurer, president … then district, then diocesan leadership.”

A National Perspective

Frechette eventually served as National Vice President for the Northeast Region, where she made it her mission to connect with Vincentians who often felt overlooked.

“I knew there were people in places like Maine, Vermont, and New Hampshire who hadn’t been visited in a long time,” she said. “So my goal was to go out to them.”

She traveled widely, meeting with Conferences, helping form new districts, and ensuring that Vincentians across the region felt connected to the broader mission.

“It was about bringing what the Society has to offer to people who didn’t always get to see that,” she said.

A Voice for Change

Throughout her journey, Frechette has remained a strong advocate for both the people SVdP serves and the volunteers who serve them.

“I’ve always seen myself as representing the people we serve,” she said. “Their voice should be part of every decision we make.”

Her perspective was shaped not only by her Vincentian experience, but by her own determination to push forward in spaces where women were not always expected to lead.

“Any woman of my generation who achieved anything had to push,” she said. “You had to stand your ground.”

That mindset is what first brought her to the door of that meeting decades ago – and what has guided her ever since.

The difference now is that more doors are open. And for those that aren’t, Frechette believes they still can be.

“It’s possible,” she said. “I have to believe that.”

 

John Berry

3-19-2026 A Letter from Our Servant Leaders

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In the Spirit of Frédéric: Charity Rooted in Truth

John BerryAs I write this, I’m just back from several days in Paris at the international headquarters of the Society of St. Vincent de Paul. It was a grace‑filled visit in many ways, but one moment in particular has stayed with me, and I’d like to share it with you because I think it speaks directly to our Vincentian vocation today.

During the trip, I had the joy of returning once again to the tomb of our founder, Blessed Frédéric Ozanam, in the crypt of the Church of Saint‑Joseph des Carmes.  I have had the privilege of praying there a number of times over the years, and each visit has felt like coming back to sit for a while with an old friend and mentor.  Above Frédéric’s tomb is a depiction of the Good Samaritan, a reminder that he did not just think about charity – he organized it, he lived it, and he invited others to walk that road with him.

Standing there, I found myself thinking of one of his simple, practical invitations: “Let us do without hesitation whatever lies in our hands.”  That sounds so modest, yet it’s actually quite demanding. It means doing the good we can, now, in this place, with these people, without waiting for perfect conditions or easier circumstances. For us as Vincentians, that might mean having a difficult personal encounter visit after a long day, listening patiently to someone who is angry or distrustful, or advocating for a neighbor even when the system seems stacked against them.

Frédéric also insisted that “the poor person is a unique person of God’s fashioning with an inalienable right to respect.”  That phrase, “inalienable right to respect,” echoed in my heart as I left the crypt and walked literally through a small door to another sacred place of memory.

At the church and crypt is the site where a large number of priests and bishops were imprisoned and then killed during the French Revolution in what came to be known as part of the “September Massacres” of 1792. Revolutionaries had demanded that clergy swear an oath to uphold the new civil laws governing the Church, the Civil Constitution of the Clergy, effectively placing obedience to the state above obedience to the Church, specifically the Pope. Many priests and bishops refused this oath in conscience and were arrested and confined in the former Carmelite monastery, the Hotel des Carmes.

In early September 1792, mobs stormed the prisons of Paris. At the Carmes, they went through the courtyard, confronting these clergy one by one. Their demand was stark: take the oath or face death. Around 90–160 clergy and religious leaders (bishops, priests, deacons, and others) were killed there over those days, many hacked down in the cloister garden where they had been praying.  Their names and stories have been preserved in the Church’s memory; some have already been beatified as martyrs.

It is sobering to realize that the same church which now shelters Frédéric’s tomb was once literally spattered with the blood of those who refused to betray what they believed.  Walking from the crypt into that space, I found myself holding two truths at once: the gentle, organized charity of Ozanam and the fierce, costly fidelity of the September martyrs.

We are not, thank God, facing mobs with weapons at our doors. No one is threatening us with death if we continue to make personal encounters or operate food pantries. And it would be wrong (and frankly absurd) to equate the risks we face in ministry with the suffering of those martyrs.

But their story does offer us a moral framework, a kind of X‑ray of what it means to hold fast to the Gospel when strong pressures push us in other directions.

Those priests and bishops were not perfect men, but in that decisive moment they refused to say with their lips what they did not believe in their hearts. They would not sign away the truth of the Church’s life and their identity as shepherds, even under enormous duress. In the words Pope Benedict XVI would later use, they understood that “to defend the truth, to articulate it with humility and conviction, and to bear witness to it in life are therefore exacting and indispensable forms of charity.”

That is the connection I kept coming back to: charity and truth. Our Vincentian vocation is not just to “be nice” or to perform good works. As Benedict also wrote, “Without truth, charity degenerates into sentimentality. Love becomes an empty shell.”  The martyrs of Carmes refused to empty their faith of truth. In our very different circumstances, we are called to refuse to empty our charity of the Gospel.

For us, the pressure is usually quieter and more ordinary: fatigue, bureaucracy, misunderstanding, conflict, or just the slow drift toward discouragement. No one is asking us to renounce our faith, but many small forces tug at our commitment.

Think of moments like these:

  • When a neighbor we’ve helped many times returns again, and everything in us wants to say, “Not this time,” simply out of frustration.
  • When a fellow Vincentian disagrees with us about how to help a family, and resentment threatens to take root.
  • When a foundation, corporation, or individual tempts us to compromise our Catholic identity or our respect for the dignity of every person, in order to make things easier or more efficient.

In those moments, the example of the martyrs can strengthen our spine; not to become combative or rigid, but to be quietly faithful. They remind us that it is possible, with God’s grace, to say: I will not betray what I believe about who God is and who the poor are, no matter what the circumstances are pushing me toward.

Saint Paul told the Romans, “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind.” (Rom 12:2). The priests at Carmes paid for that non‑conformity with their lives. For us, it may mean paying with our time, our comfort, our reputation, or our preferences. But the logic is the same: our charity flows from the Gospel, not from convenience or public approval.

When I read the words of Saint Vincent de Paul, I hear the same tough‑minded realism about charity. He acknowledged how demanding this vocation is: “You will find out that Charity is a heavy burden to carry… But you will keep your gentleness and your smile. It is not enough to give soup and bread… You are the servant of the poor… And the uglier and the dirtier they will be, the more unjust and insulting, the more love you must give them.”  That is not sentimental. That is a form of martyrdom of the ego, a daily dying to self so that Christ’s love can live in us.

Frédéric, too, understood that our service has to be rooted in something deeper than our own goodwill. He reminded his companions that “our main purpose is not merely to help the poor – this is but a means to an end. Our true aim is to preserve in ourselves the Catholic Faith in all its purity and to communicate it to others through the channels of charity.”  In other words, we are not just social workers with rosaries. We are disciples trying to let Christ’s truth and love pass through us to others.

Pope Francis, speaking on the World Day of the Poor, said that “the poor… are not one, two, or three, they are a multitude,” and that the Gospel calls us not to bury the gifts the Lord has given us but to “spread charity, share our bread, multiply love.”  He calls poverty a “scandal,” not to shame those who are poor, but to stir the rest of us from complacency. That word, scandal, reminds me that indifference and cowardice are also forms of “bending” under pressure: pressure to look away, to stay comfortable, to protect our time and resources.

So how do we live this out concretely, in the spirit of Carmes and Ozanam, but without drama?

  • By telling the truth in love when we advocate for our neighbors, even if it complicates relationships with institutions or public officials.
  • By refusing to let anger, gossip, or division take root in our conferences, even when we strongly disagree, because our unity is itself a witness to the Gospel.
  • By making decisions that prioritize the dignity of the person in front of us over metrics, statistics, or efficiency.
  • By praying, (really praying, not just checking off a box), before and after our visits, asking the Lord to purify our motives so that it is truly His love we bring, not our own agendas.

These are small, hidden acts of fidelity. But that’s where most Christian heroism actually lives.

Standing Together at the Tomb

As I picture that day in Paris, I see myself again moving from the tomb of Blessed Frédéric to the memorial of those martyred clergy. They did not know each other in earthly life, but in that space their witness converges.

From Frédéric we receive the pattern of organized, thoughtful, incarnate charity: “Let us do without hesitation whatever lies in our hands.”  From the martyrs, we receive a bracing reminder that the truth of the Gospel is worth our whole life and cannot be negotiated away. From St. Vincent, we receive the challenge to carry the “heavy burden” of charity with gentleness and joy, even when people are “unjust and insulting.”  From our recent Popes, we hear that authentic charity always walks hand in hand with truth and courage.

My prayer for all of us, as Vincentians across the country, is not that we might face persecution like those martyrs – indeed, we pray to be spared that – but that we might share their inner freedom. May we be men and women who, by God’s grace, will not surrender our deepest convictions: that Christ is present in the poor, that every person has an inalienable right to respect, and that love in truth is stronger than any fear.

As we go about our ordinary, sometimes exhausting, sometimes beautiful service this week, I invite you to remember that courtyard at Carmes and that quiet tomb of Frédéric. Ask the Lord to give you, in your own setting, the courage to be faithful to the mission He has entrusted to you: to love our brothers and sisters in Christ, especially those who are poor, even when it is hard and challenging.

And then, simply, like good Vincentians, let us do whatever lies in our hands.

Peace and God’s blessings,

John

A Place for Her at SVdP: Sheila Gilbert

A Place for Her at SVdP: Sheila Gilbert 163 180 SVDP USA

How SVdP’s first woman National President transformed the organization

Long before women formally held national leadership roles in the Society of St. Vincent de Paul, they were already deeply woven into its mission – serving neighbors in need, organizing charitable works, and quietly strengthening the Society’s spiritual foundation. Over time, that commitment helped open doors for women to shape the Society at every level.

Few leaders embody that evolution more than Sheila Gilbert, who became the first woman elected National President of the Society of St. Vincent de Paul USA in 2011. Leaders like Gilbert have paved the way for the Society to be able to serve an average of 5 million vulnerable individuals nationwide each year.

From Local Conference to National Council

Gilbert’s leadership journey began decades earlier. She joined the Society in 1980 at the Christ the King Conference in Indianapolis, initially seeking a meaningful way to serve her community. Like many Vincentians, she started at the local level, gradually becoming more involved in the Society’s work and governance.

“I joined the Conference at my parish and served as secretary,” Gilbert recalled. “From there I became involved at the regional level and then nationally through various committees.”

Over the years, Gilbert took on increased responsibility within the organization, including serving as National Secretary for more than a decade. By the time she was elected National President, she had already spent roughly fifteen years working at the national level.

Prioritizing Systemic Change

During her presidency, Gilbert helped expand the Society’s emphasis on systemic change—encouraging Vincentians not only to respond to immediate needs but also to address the underlying causes of poverty.

One initiative that reflected this vision was the Society’s engagement with programs like Bridges Out of Poverty and Getting Ahead, which help individuals examine the barriers keeping them in poverty and identify pathways to greater stability.

Rather than prescribing solutions, these programs encourage participants to define their own goals and strategies for moving forward.

For Gilbert, that approach reflected a deeper understanding of the Society’s mission: walking with people in need rather than simply providing short-term relief.

Creating History

Her leadership also demonstrated how women were becoming increasingly visible within the Society’s national structure.

Former National President Gene Smith, who appointed Gilbert to leadership roles earlier in her Vincentian journey, recalled recognizing her ability to lead.

“When I made appointments, it wasn’t because I thought we needed more women,” Smith said. “It was because they were talented people and the right people for the job.”

Smith later watched with pride as Gilbert became the Society’s first woman National President.

Despite the historic nature of her election, Gilbert never viewed the role as a personal milestone. Instead, she saw it as part of the Society’s continuing effort to grow stronger in its service to others.

Today, women serve in leadership roles across the Society – from Conference officers to national committees. Gilbert’s presidency helped demonstrate that those contributions could also extend to the organization’s highest levels.

For Gilbert, leadership in the Society was never about personal recognition, but about stewardship.

“The strength of the Society is that nobody tries to hang on to the position,” Gilbert said. “You serve your term, and then you give the new person free rein to do what they need to do.”

Michael Acaldo

3-12-2026 A Letter from Our Servant Leaders

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“No” Is Not in the Vincentian Vocabulary 

Michael Acaldo

My 91-year-old father recently told me the older you get the faster time flies by.  The Lenten Season is a special time for all of us Vincentians. That is why it’s important that we cherish this precious time to reflect on our spiritual lives.

I often say to myself, “How am I growing?”  Sometimes I love my answer and sometimes I am disappointed.   Lent gives us time to reflect on how we are doing spiritually in this light-speed world we live in.

What do I love about the Society?  Simply put, it is my Vincentian friends.  In the Baton Rouge Diocese, it was hundreds of Vincentians.  Since becoming a part of the National Council, it has become thousands of friends across the country.

Last April, the International Board of Directors for the Society visited the United States, and I was able to make international friends.

As you read this article, I am in Paris, France with our National President, John Berry, visiting the International Office and Vincentians from all the English-speaking countries.  I am blessed to build friendships with them too.

Whether it’s Baton Rouge, another city in the U.S., or Paris, our Vincentian relationships are priceless because they help us to grow to say yes to our Christian call to seek, find, and encounter Christ in those in need.

How do we get through the stress of being so overwhelmed? Our Vincentian friends strengthen us when we get disappointed or distressed.  We are all encountering record levels of requests for assistance with food, rent, utilities and the essentials.

It’s our friends and faith in God that help us say yes to helping or yes to a relatively new special work concept, like motel-to-home, or yes to innovative ideas.

As Vincentians, “no” is just not in our vocabulary!  We embrace the “yes” in our vocation because we have Christ and our friends on our side which makes all things possible.

Vincentians around the world look at what we accomplish across the United States and they are inspired!  We have thousands of active and successful Conferences and special works that embrace Blessed Frédéric’s innovative spirit.

Friendship is, of course, an essential element of our Society, and was very important to Frédéric Ozanam. In his letters, he frequently wrote with great tenderness and affection, addressing his recipients as “friend” and thanking them for their friendships.  In a letter to Francois Lallier, one of the co-founders of the Society, Frédéric wrote, “…Friendships formed under the auspices of faith and charity, in a double confraternity of religious discussion and benevolent works, far from languishing as the result of prolonged absence, look inward and focus in some way; they feed on remembrance” (Letter 175, to Lallier, 1838).

It’s wonderful to think that our Vincentian friendships thrive, no matter the distance between us, because they have been formed in faith, love, and service to our neighbors in need!   Even though, for the moment, I am thousands of miles away from my American Vincentian friends now, our friendship is sustained as I remember the great work we have done together through Christ and the prayers and worship we have offered together.

Thank you for living and breathing our mission. Most of all, thank you for being a friend to me, your Conference members, and to our Brother and Sister Vincentians across the world!

Best wishes in Christ,

Michael

Faith in Action: Confronting Food and Housing Insecurity

Faith in Action: Confronting Food and Housing Insecurity 1920 1080 SVDP USA

By Ingrid Delgado, National Director of Public Policy & Advocacy

Vincentians know Matthew 25 well. In verses 31-46, Jesus teaches us that feeding the hungry, giving drink to the thirsty, welcoming the stranger, clothing the naked, caring for the ill, and visiting the prisoner are the criterion of judgement that will determine if we enter the Kingdom of God for eternal life. In fact, whatever we do (or don’t do) for one of the least of Jesus’ brothers, we did (or didn’t do) for Him. This, of course, is a core part of the Vincentian mission.

But what do we do in a time and in a country in which almost 48,000,000 people are food insecure and in which over 37,000,000 households are cost-burdened, paying over 30% of their income on housing? These staggering numbers challenge us to go beyond the work of charity and promote a more just society.

As Pope Benedict XVI wrote in Deus Caritas Est:

“A just society must be the achievement of politics, not of the Church. Yet the promotion of justice through efforts to bring about openness of mind and will to the demands of the common good is something which concerns the Church deeply.”

In our efforts to “bring about openness of mind and will,” the Society of St. Vincent de Paul called for the Farm Bill that was considered by a Congressional committee this week to be a bipartisan product that alleviates hunger and strengthens the Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program, or SNAP, our nation’s core nutrition program. We are also closely monitoring a bipartisan housing bill that will likely receive a vote in the U.S. Senate next week.

As Vincentians who are dedicated to being in close relationship with and serving people in need, you bring a unique and critical perspective to the promotion of justice. In order to better inform our advocacy work, I am interested in learning about your experiences and perspectives about how our neighbors in need are being impacted by food and housing insecurity and the root causes of those experiences. You can send those to me at stories@svdpusa.org.

And if you are just starting to engage in the work of promoting justice through advocacy, please sign up for our electronic advocacy alerts for easy opportunities to write your elected officials about policy proposals impacting our neighbors in need: https://votervoice.net/SVDPUSA/home.

John Berry

3-5-2026 A Letter from Our Servant Leaders

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How Is YOUR Lent Going?

John Berry

On the First Sunday of Lent, my Pastor, Fr. Eric, began Mass with the question, “How’s your Lent going?” It’s a question we ask often this time of year, and it’s worth pausing to really answer it. Lent is a sacred invitation to go into the desert with Christ; to fast, pray, and face our temptations honestly. Those forty days in the wilderness were not just about hunger or isolation; they were about clarity. Jesus confronted the temptations that could have drawn Him away from His mission. During the liturgical Lenten season, each of us is asked to do the same: to see what distracts us, what drives us, and what tempts us to rely on our own strength instead of God’s.

For those of us who serve with the Society of St. Vincent de Paul, Lent can also be a time of reckoning with a very particular temptation — the temptation to take on too much.

Service to the poor, by its very nature, stirs deep compassion. When we see a family suffering, when we meet a neighbor sleeping in a car, when we hear yet another desperate plea for help, our hearts respond at once. We are Vincentians after all; people whose vocation is to bring the love of Christ to those in need. Yet here lies one of the devil’s most subtle tricks, one that St. Vincent himself warned against.

In one of his letters to the early Vincentians, St. Vincent de Paul cautioned his followers about what he called “the ruse of the devil.” He wrote that the evil one sometimes tempts good people not by urging them toward sin, but by pushing them to do more good than they can manage. Overactivity, he said, can exhaust the servant of God, leading to frustration, discouragement, and eventually spiritual dryness. What begins as zeal for doing good can end in weariness of spirit.

That warning feels as relevant today as it must have in 17th‑century France. In our busy modern world, being “overcommitted” is almost a badge of honor. In ministry, it can even feel holy. We tell ourselves that we can rest later, that the poor can’t wait, that saying “no” is selfish. But in truth, overextension is not sacrifice.  It is a distortion of our call to serve.

Consider Jesus in the desert as described in the Gospels of Matthew and Luke. The devil tempts Him with immediate solutions: “Turn these stones into bread,” “Throw yourself down and the angels will save you,” “All the kingdoms of the world can be yours if you worship me.” Each temptation is essentially the same: Do more. Be more. Prove yourself. Yet Jesus resists, not through might, but through surrender to the Father’s will. He chooses patience over performance, obedience over urgency.

That same wisdom applies to our Vincentian service. We are not asked to do everything. We are asked to do what God asks, nothing more and nothing less. As Pope Francis wrote in Evangelii Gaudium, “Time is greater than space.” In other words, genuine transformation takes time. We plant seeds and trust God to bring the harvest. When we rush or take on too much, we begin trying to occupy spaces that belong to God alone.

And in his recent exhortation, Dilexi Te, Pope Leo XIV reminds us that authentic love of Christ always leads to service, but never to self‑destruction. He insists that the Lord does not ask us to exhaust ourselves in a way that closes our hearts to prayer, community, and joy. Love, he teaches, must be ordered: it begins with receiving God’s grace and only then overflows in generous action. When our service to the poor is rooted in this ordered love, it remains a path to holiness rather than a burden that crushes our spirit.

Many volunteers have felt the creeping weariness that follows overcommitment. It doesn’t happen overnight. It begins with saying yes a few too many times; one more call, one more personal encounter visit, one more meeting. Then comes the fatigue, the frustration, the resentment (“Why isn’t everyone doing as much as me!”), and the quiet thought: “No matter how much I do, it’s never enough.”

When that thought takes hold, we’ve lost sight of the essential truth that the poor are not projects, and we are not saviors. We are companions. We walk alongside our neighbors, offering what we can, trusting God to do the rest. Pope Leo XIII, in his encyclical Rerum Novarum, reminded Catholics that works of charity must always flow from “a spirit of Christian moderation” and be guided by prudence. Charity, when fueled only by emotion or urgency, becomes unsustainable.

In our time, Pope Francis spoke just as clearly about this. In his address to pastoral workers at the Vatican, he warned of a “spiritual burnout” that comes from confusing mission with activity. “We must learn to rest in the Lord,” he said, “to take time to pray, to recover, to be with our families.” Service that exhausts the heart ceases to be service, it becomes self‑sacrifice without grace.

St. Vincent de Paul understood balance as a sign of humility. He told his missionaries, “Do not be upset if you cannot do everything you would like to do, as long as you do what you can as you ought.” That phrase, “as you ought,” is key. It means discerning what God actually asks of us, and not what our pride or guilt demands.

Lent invites us to rediscover that discernment. When we fast, we learn restraint. When we pray, we relearn dependence. When we give alms, we remember that our resources, our time, talent, treasure, are not infinite. They belong to God and must be used with wisdom. That same wisdom should guide our volunteering and our ministry.

A few practical questions may help us in this Lenten reflection:

  • Am I saying yes to everything because I’m afraid of disappointing someone?
  • Has my prayer time suffered because I’m always serving?
  • Do I mistake busyness for holiness?
  • Am I leaving space for God to act, or am I trying to control the results myself?

If any of these questions stir your conscience, you’re not alone. Lent isn’t a season for guilt; it is a season for realignment and the joy of renewal.

The Society is not strengthened by the number of activities we perform, but by the depth of the love we bring to each encounter. Think of the early Church described in the Acts of the Apostles: “They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and fellowship, to the breaking of bread and the prayers” (Acts 2:42). Their strength came not from doing everything but from doing the essentials together — worshipping, listening, sharing.

Our Councils and Conferences can live that same spirit by pausing, praying, and discerning together. Sometimes the holiest decision a Vincentian can make is to slow down, to focus on fewer works done with more love.

As we move through the remaining weeks of Lent, let’s make spiritual balance part of our discipline. Set aside intentional time for rest and reflection. Seek quiet moments of gratitude for the work God allows you to do. If you sense exhaustion creeping in, don’t see it as failure, see it as an invitation from the Spirit to renew your strength.

Consider making your personal Lenten task this: instead of adding something new, consider releasing something that has become too heavy. Step back from one commitment to make room for prayer. Turn one “yes” into a gracious, faithful “not this time.” Let that act of restraint become your offering.

When we serve with peace, with balance, and with dependence on God’s grace, our ministry bears fruit that lasts. We become not just helpers of the poor, but witnesses to hope. And that, after all, is the heart of the Vincentian vocation.

May this Lent bring you clarity, renewal, and the joy of serving as Christ served; lovingly, humbly, and always in harmony with the will of God.

Peace and God’s blessings,

John

The Saints Who Find and Form Us

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By Tim Williams, Senior Director, Formation & Leadership Development

“We don’t find the saints,” my dear friend Fr. Ronald Ramson likes to say. “They find us.”

St. Vincent, St. Louise, Bl. Frédéric, Bl. Rosalie – all of them, or at least one of them – has found you and led you to this vocation, perhaps in ways you did not even recognize at the time. For me, the call to this vocation came via my wife, who had attended an Invitation to Serve at our parish while I was away on business travel. She signed me up in absentia.

Some years later, I sought to discern what seemed like a much greater commitment: to leave the corporate world and move to a new state to serve full-time as National Formation Director. Amidst my own prayer and reflection, I found God, through the saints, kept nudging me, tapping me on the shoulder, letting me know that this was not only the path I should follow, but was the path I already was on.

Visiting my mother around that time, we went to my father’s grave, where Mom had often expressed comfort in a statue of St. Joseph, patron saint of fathers, who she said stood on a small rise overlooking Dad. When we arrived, I took a closer look and found it was not St. Joseph who had been watching over my father for fifteen years – it was St. Vincent de Paul. I didn’t find him; he always was there.

When I’d joined the Society full-time, my Uncle Denny, my godfather, called me very excitedly to congratulate me, and asked, “Did I ever tell you my confirmation name was Vincent de Paul?” All my life, though I had not known it, my godfather was Vincent de Paul. I didn’t find him; he always was there.

Just last year, as my wife and I celebrated our 40th anniversary, we traveled to an outdoor museum containing historical buildings from around the state. The last time we had visited Old World Wisconsin we were just teenagers, and in the little white church there we made promises we would later keep through our engagement and marriage. We had both forgotten, or perhaps never noticed, that this old wooden church was Catholic, and were pleasantly surprised to notice and that it was named St. Peter – the same name as our current parish. It wasn’t until weeks later, though, reading an old history book in the office, that I turned the page and froze, seeing a 100-year-old photo of a little white church, the church in which the first Conference in Milwaukee (the town where I grew up) had been founded. It was St. Peter Cathedral, the very same little white church that would later mean so much to me and my wife – the very wife who would one day sign me up for the Society of St. Vincent de Paul. I didn’t find him; he always was there.

This vocation, our Rule reminds us, is not just for Conference Meetings and home visits, but for “every moment of our lives.” Let us seek the saints who already have found us, looking both ahead and behind us, in all the events and people in our lives, so that we may better follow their path towards holiness.

2-26-2026 A Letter from Our Servant Leaders

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Our Vocation Is Unique

What is it that makes the Society of St. Vincent de Paul unique? What is our purpose? Or, to borrow from Simon Sinek – what is our “WHY?” Is it our focus on good works? There are many organizations, both faith-based and secular, that do good works. Is it our focus on friendship? There are many fraternal organizations that offer the chance for friends to gather together. Is it spirituality? There are many groups that provide a spiritual focus for their members.

So, what is it? Our focus on growing in holiness in fellowship with our brother and sister Vincentians all pointing to serving our neighbors in need gets us closer to the answer. You might even call these the “Essential Elements” of being a Vincentian! Blessed Frédéric and the other founders could have just focused on being very efficient in delivering wood to the homes of the poor. Good work for sure; but if that was their only focus, their “WHY,” then none of us would be Vincentians because the Society of St. Vincent de Paul would not exist and millions of the faithful around the world would not have had this opportunity for spiritual growth. Tens of millions of our neighbors in need likely would not have witnessed Christ’s presence in their lives. It is the emphasis on growing in holiness, to empty ourselves so that we are able to see Christ in our neighbors in need (and our fellow Vincentians), added to the fellowship we have with one another, all leading to our corporal and spiritual works of mercy that makes us unique. We are called by Christ to be His disciples in this Vincentian vocation. Isn’t that wonderful!

Pope Saint John Paul II alludes to this in his Apostolic Exhortation, Christifideles Laici (“Christ’s Faithful Laity”), where he says, “We come to a full sense of the dignity of the lay faithful if we consider the prime and fundamental vocation that the Father assigns to each of them in Jesus Christ through the Holy Spirit: the vocation to holiness, that is, the perfection of charity.” This combination of our vocation to holiness leading to “the perfection of charity” is what sets us apart as an organization. It is my belief that the uniqueness of our vocation is that the Society offers us a means to capture a tangible, authentic, “real world” experience of this call to holiness and perfection of charity (our “WHY”).

Formation

But this vocation isn’t something we experience once and forget about. This is something we will spend the rest of our lives figuring out – being changed in ways we do not yet understand. This is God’s plan!

It is, therefore, critical to not only continue to open ourselves to this call through our prayer life, fellowship and service, but also to continually work on our formation. In fact, the Rule tells us that “It is essential that the Society continually promote the formation and training of its members and Officers, in order to deepen their knowledge of the Society and their spirituality, improve the sensitivity, quality and efficiency of their service to the poor and help them be aware of the benefits, resources and opportunities that are available for the poor. The Society also offers members higher training in order to better help to raise the cultural and social level of those who request this support. [3.12]”

But we need to always help each other understand this vocation we have and, frankly, the challenges involved. We can reassure one another that we are together and that staying with formation prepares us for our mission – to meet Christ in those in need.

I recently had the pleasure of being one of the presenters of an Ozanam Orientation for a brand new conference in South Carolina. Not only is this a new conference but it is also a relatively new church parish that was looking for a way to do outreach – and they decided to form a St. Vincent de Paul conference! What a blessing to see new Vincentians on fire as they begin their vocation!  It is up to us as “experienced” Vincentians to help them and all newcomers grow in holiness; to grow in our perfection of charity, to grow in our Vocation.

Your National Council, through the leadership of Aldo Barletta (National Vice President of Vincentian Spiritual Growth and Enrichment) and others, want to help you in this process by broadening and expanding available formation and training material, programs, and tools for our Vincentian Pathways. This includes exploring revising the Ozanam Orientation and its delivery, Invitation for Renewal, highlighting a Formation Day at the National Assembly, emphasizing training of Spiritual Advisors (English and Spanish speaking) across the country, utilizing Fred Talks and the Ozanam Institute (https://www.ozanaminstitute.org/), and more. Your Technology Committee is also working to implement modern technologies to facilitate delivery of formation materials to you when you need them. I hope to have more to come on that later this year.

Pope Francis, in his Apostolic Exhortation, Evangelii Gaudium (“The Joy of the Gospel”), wrote, “We need to help others to realize that the only way is to learn how to encounter others with the right attitude, which is to accept and esteem them as companions along the way, without interior resistance. Better yet, it means learning to find Jesus in the faces of others, in their voices, in their pleas.” And so it is, my Vincentian brothers and sisters, that the essence, the uniqueness – the “WHY” – of the Society of St. Vincent de Paul is that it provides you and me a way to personally encounter Jesus in a real, tangible manner.

May we help one another remain formed in this message!

Yours in Blessed Frédéric,

Brian